I love it when a song really makes you think. As a dad of three, I often think about how I’m doing when it comes to raising these kids. Here are a number of songs for dads with particularly poignant lyrics for us to ponder.
“Father of Mine” – Everclear
This song is so evocative of a difficult childhood. Makes me thankful that my kids won’t one day sing such a song (by God’s grace).
“Wonderful” – Everclear
Another evocative song about a difficult childhood. Difficulties are a reoccurring theme in Everclear songs, aren’t they?
“Unforgiven” – Fefe Dobson
Dad, if you’re ever tempted to leave your family forever, and you have a young daughter, one listen to this song will set you straight, unless you’re a total dolt.
Lyrics found at www.seeklyrics.com.
Where were you the first time someone broke my heart
Where were you when I first learned to drive a car
Where were you when I plugged in my first guitar
It’s too late for I’m sorry
This is one heavy song by one angry young lady.
“Life of a Salesman” – Yellowcard
Man, I love this song. This is like the only song out there that has a positive relationship between dad and son.
Lyrics found at www.seeklyrics.com.
Father I will always be
That same boy that stood by the sea
And watched you tower over me
Now I’m older I wanna be the same as you
Honestly, this song makes me cry. I’ll admit it. I want my kids to play this song at my funeral.
“Hurt” – Christina Aguilara
As much as I don’t agree with Christina Aguilara’s image and feel that most of her lyrics are despicable, this is a thought-provoking song for young ladies. One day, though you despise your parents now (which is a sin), you may regret it when it’s too late.
“Papa Don’t Preach” – Madonna
Papa, you shoulda preached. Now it’s too late.
“Song From An American Movie Pt. 1″ – Everclear
I love how singer Art Alexakis says:
The only thing that ever made sense in my life
Is the sound of my little girl laughing
Through a window on a summer night
If it weren’t for my relationship with Jesus Christ, I would give a hearty Amen!
“Mr. Mom” – Lonestar
My father in law got us a DVD of Lonestar videos. My kids watched “Mr. Mom” about a hundred times. It’s pretty hilarious.
Lonestar singer Richie McDonald’s lyrics are written by a real dad. He struggles with being on the road, away from his family in “I’m Already There.” Another great family song is “My Front Porch Looking In.” I’m not a big country music fan, but these tunes nail what family is all about.
“With Arms Wide Open” – Creed
All right, I know people tease Creed, but I honestly don’t know why. I think they rock.
“With Arms Wide Open” has the following devastating lyrics:
If I had just one wish
Only one demand
I hope he’s not like me
I hope he understands
Amen!
“Cats in the Cradle” – Cat Stevens
Of course, this is the ultimate song to make dads think very seriously about their involvement with their kids.
Lyrics found at www.seeklyrics.com.
I’ve long since retired and my son’s moved away.
I called him up just the other day.
I said, “I’d like to see you if you don’t mind.”
He said, “I’d love to, dad, if I could find the time.
You see, my new job’s a hassle, and the kid’s got the flu,
But it’s sure nice talking to you, dad.
It’s been sure nice talking to you.”
And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me,
He’d grown up just like me.
My boy was just like me.
Dude…
The Bible says that “children are a gift from the Lord.” (Psalm 127:4 NASB) Dads, how do you treat those gifts that have been given to you? With neglect, indifference, or gratitude? If you have, it’s not too late.
First of all, you need to be right with Jesus Christ. Repent of your sins and come to him for salvation, for “there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved.” (Acts 4:12).
Then ask your family for forgiveness and get about the business of being the greatest dad you can be- the one God intended for you to be.
